The actress recalled watching her mother get beaten up “day after day after day” by her father who was an alcoholic.
One incident that stuck with her was when her mother was “kicked down stairs” and hit in the head with a wine bottle.
“Knowing that she wanted nothing more then for her little girls to see her be empowered and be a woman of strength, but having no way to make that happen was heartbreaking for me,” Berry said.
“She stayed for too long and her children, my sister and I, saw far too much and I’ve suffered the damage of being a child of domestic violence.”
Berry’s mother took her daughters and moved them to an all-white neighborhood and school.
Not only was growing up in an all-white neighborhood a challenge, but raising two biracial children was difficult as well.
But Berry saw her mother as a “super strong, warrior woman” who was capable of anything, and her praise for her mother showed no bounds.
When it was time for Berry to leave the nest, she initially tried her hand at broadcast journalism before realizing her dream was to act. So, in 1989 she moved to New York to pursue her dream.
Her first big film credit came in 1991 when she was cast as Samuel L. Jackson’s drug-addicted girlfriend in Jungle Fever. For the next 20 years Berry spent playing more offbeat roles.
In 1995 she broke through Hollywood’s racial barriers when she became the first Black American cast as the Queen of Sheba in Solomon & Sheba. Throughout the years she continued challenging racial barriers.
Most notably in 2001 when she portrayed the wife of a prisoner on death row in Monster’s Ball. Her role earned her a Golden Globe nomination and the Oscar for best actress.
Her win marked the first time a Black woman won the Academy award for Best Actress.
As a celebrity, Berry isn’t afforded much privacy, which means her romantic relationships have often been the subject of scrutiny.
Since 1993, the Oscar-winning actress has been married, secretly engaged, and divorced several times.
In 2019, Berry shared something on Instagram that no one could have predicted. She posted a photo of her abusive father, celebrating him on Father’s Day.
After “a lot of therapy,” Berry was able to find it in her heart to forgive her father for his actions.
“When he died, I was given a gift of talking to a spiritual healer and someone that took me through some spiritual exercises to sort of heal my wound with my dad,” she said.
“He wasn’t born into the world an abusive, alcoholic man who was out of control. He became that by what he was and was not given; what he was exposed to and by what he wasn’t exposed to.”
Despite all the trials and tribulations she fought not only in the beginning of her life, but throughout her career and personal life, Berry has proved hard work and dedication not only just to your craft, but to yourself will get you far.
